WARNING: Contains graphic photos of a miscarried baby. Not for the faint hearted.
For 6 years now, February 15 is
spent commemorating the death of our 5th child, Jonathan, whom I
lost via miscarriage. He was 3 months
old.
It happened right after
Valentine’s Day 2009.
We planned to tour
the kids for the first time around Baguio.
However, we were only on the first stop (Mines View) when I felt something was wrong. I had some spotting. We calmly went straight to the hospital for a check up, but everything just happened so fast. I was already bleeding profusely. The ultrasound showed baby Jonathan still alive but already out of my uterus. I refused to believe that he could not be saved. I was telling my husband they could probably transfer the baby to another woman’s womb. And I thought of my friend, Gelay, who didn’t have a child then. That was my last memory before they put me to sleep. When I awoke, I immediately asked my Sweetheart where Jonathan was. Out of love and pity, he lied and said that Jonathan was in the nursery room. I drifted on and off to sleep for a few more hours and when I finally came around, I was told that hard truth. My baby Jonathan was gone forever.
However, we were only on the first stop (Mines View) when I felt something was wrong. I had some spotting. We calmly went straight to the hospital for a check up, but everything just happened so fast. I was already bleeding profusely. The ultrasound showed baby Jonathan still alive but already out of my uterus. I refused to believe that he could not be saved. I was telling my husband they could probably transfer the baby to another woman’s womb. And I thought of my friend, Gelay, who didn’t have a child then. That was my last memory before they put me to sleep. When I awoke, I immediately asked my Sweetheart where Jonathan was. Out of love and pity, he lied and said that Jonathan was in the nursery room. I drifted on and off to sleep for a few more hours and when I finally came around, I was told that hard truth. My baby Jonathan was gone forever.
But today, 2-15-2015, as if
with Jonathan’s consent, we’re being freed from the sad memory. He is giving us a fresh, new happy memory to
cherish every Feb. 15 hereafter. And
that is the excitement of taking a trip to Italy for the first time. We will be nearer to him as we fly across the
skies.
So, today will be the last time I will cry sad tears for you, the last time I will let the pain of your loss grip me, the last time I will remember you with sadness. From hereon, I will think of you as a happy 6-year old boy with angel’s wings, coz according to the book “Heaven is for Real”, miscarried babies grow in heaven. From hereon, the memory of Feb. 15 will just be the manifestation of my dream to go back to Europe with my Sweetheart.
So, today will be the last time I will cry sad tears for you, the last time I will let the pain of your loss grip me, the last time I will remember you with sadness. From hereon, I will think of you as a happy 6-year old boy with angel’s wings, coz according to the book “Heaven is for Real”, miscarried babies grow in heaven. From hereon, the memory of Feb. 15 will just be the manifestation of my dream to go back to Europe with my Sweetheart.
We will forever love and
remember you, our angel baby Jonathan. Thank
you for always watching over us from heaven.
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